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Post by tomboi on Nov 10, 2005 22:28:14 GMT -5
That is I. I'm not a prissy girl, never have been and never will be. I'm tomboyish. I don't mind looking kind of boyish and I like androgyny because it's unique and it keeps people guessing. I hate labels and generalizations so why is it that just because I like to dress comfortably and wear my hair short some people want to assume that I am lesbian??? I am definitely not a homophobe, some of the coolest peeps I've met in life are gay but my deal is what's up with all these f***ing labels and sh!t! It really annoys me at times. Even my own mother tried to play me when I got my hair cut short. She told my niece that I looked like "one of the boys", WTF. Sorry for the venting but I know I can't be the only one annoyed with the labeling, stereotyping and assuming.  holla. |
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Post by Norhova on Nov 13, 2005 11:36:34 GMT -5
i definitely hear u kid. people tend to stereotype individuals based on appearances and sadly enuff that aint never gone change. all u can do is walk with confidence and love yaself regardless of what people say. no matter how one looks there is always someone out there who has a comment. its reality but all we can do about that is continue to do what we do and be who we are.
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Post by DaPrezzident on Nov 14, 2005 17:32:50 GMT -5
This is something that we've had to deal with throughout our career and I am sure there is 10 more years of it to come. Just love yourself and do you. f**k what other people think.
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Post by **~~~Lola~~~** on Dec 29, 2005 22:58:58 GMT -5
I HEAR U GIRL. ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS GROWING UP WAS A TOMBOY. EVERYONE SWORE SHE WAS GAY JUST BECAUSE OF THE WAY SHE DRESSED. ITS MESSED UP, BUT THATS THE WORLD WE LIVE IN. ITS SUCKS BUT I'M BEING REAL.
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holla. 
