Dilemma...In Need Of Advice

[tomboyishwayz]

This is tomboyishwayz bka tomboi. Had to change my name, forgot my old password. Anyway, here's the deal, I'm gonna get right to the point. I've always considered myself to be a straight female my whole life. It is the lifestyle that I've always known and have been taught that any other way is unacceptable. However, now I'm 22 and ever since 18 I've noticed that I've been attracted to other females. This is a scarey feeling for me and it's difficult for me to deal with the fact that I might be bisexual. I have a couple of lesbian friends that I guess I could talk to but I dont want them to just confirm what I've been feeling. No one knows how Im feeling. I dont want to tell my friends and I sure as hell cant tell my family. What should I do? Should I just ignore what I feel? Maybe I'm just buggin' out? Who should I talk to? I really need someone's advice here....

[Cashhhhmiiirrreeee]

It's going to be hard trying to decide between how you feel and what other people around you believe in. It could be curiosity, or the feelings really could be genuine. Its up to you to figure that out. Maybe you should try being in a relationship or just start talking to females to help you understand if its just something you wanted to try once or actaully choose to accept the fact that you may be bisexual.

[tomboyishwayz]

Thanks cashmire. It's just so difficult because I want to try talking to females but I fear the judgement and backlash. It's almost like something keeps holding me back. But yet I dont want to continue to ignore my feelings, I've done that for 4 years now and look how far it's gotten me......the feelings are still there

[mohoganybrwn]

Hi Tomboi.

I agree with Cash...test the waters and see what feels right to you. Also LIVE for yourself and no one else! Best of luck to you.

[kanDi]

mohoganybrwn said:

Also LIVE for yourself and no one else!

I totally agree!